Name: |
Catharine Rivers |
Gender: |
Female |
Age: |
22 |
Birth Date: |
1831 |
Birth Place: |
Italy |
Marriage Date: |
3 Sep 1853 |
Marriage Place: |
Richmond, Virginia |
Father: |
Andrew Rivers |
Mother: |
Mary |
Spouse: |
Louis Botte |
FHL Film Number: |
31855 |
Reference ID: |
p 1 # 39 |
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So, we have Catherine Revaro coming to Virginia from Italy and marrying Lewis Botto in 1853, naming their children James Lewis and Mary Catherine Botto. In 1866, Catherine married for the second time. I have not been able to ascertain what happened to her first husband, however, no death notice, find-a-grave document, no military record that I can find! There are other Louis Bottos in the United States as well. In the Richmond City telephone directory of 1876, Catherine is listed as Catherine Botto, widow of Louis Botto! In 1876, she was a widow all right, but the widow of Nicholas Raffo who had died in 1873! Catherine ‘s first husband must have died, besides being listed as a widow in the phone directory, when Catherine herself dies in 1903, we can find an obituary in the Richmond Times Dispatch newspaper that states that a “solemn requiem mass” was said at her funeral at St. Patrick’s Catholic Church, the church where the family attended for years. She would not have been thus honored if she had divorced. The Catholic Church would not have allowed it.
Obituary
Mrs. Catharine Raffo
Mrs. Catharine Raffo, mother of Mr. James L. Botto and Mr. John F. Raffo, of the fire department, and Mrs. Mary C. Kerse, wife of Sergeant James H. Kerse, of the First Police Station, died Saturday morning. Her funeral will take place Monday morning at 10 o’clock from St. Patrick’s church. The interment will be in Mt. Calvary.
The following gentlemen will act as pall-bearers:
Honorary-Richard M. Taylor,
H.M. Smith, Junior
Dr. David Coleman
Dr. W. H. Scott
John Frischkorn
John Mann Jr.
Joseph H. Webb
Edgar Shine
Active:
F.J. Purrater, Anthony Griffith,
Claiborne Epps, Andrew Donald,
Frank Overman, Peter Gonella,
Captain W.B. Whitlock,
James Burke
Raffo died April 25, 1903, at the residence of her son-in-law, James H. Kerse. 2612 East Grace St.
MRS. CATHARINE RAFFO
The funeral will take place Monday morning, April 27th, at 10 o’clock, from St. Patrick’s Church with a requiem mass.
Friends invited to attend Interment Mt. Calvary.
Washington and New York papers please copy.
–published in the Richmond Times Dispatch, April 26, 1903
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–published in the Richmond Times Dispatch, 1903
Five years after her death, her granddaughter Marie Botto Kerse, my Great Aunt, wrote this tribute to Catherine which was published in the Richmond Times Dispatch as well, in 1908:
In Memoriam
In sad but loving remembrance
of my devoted Grandmother,
Catherine Botto Raffo
who died five years ago.
April 25, 1903.
Every year the good God calleth
some loved one to endless rest,
and our hearts, though filled with anguish,
can but cry, “He knoweth best.”
But a year and distant cometh,
when we tread the vast unknown,
we shall find our ransomed loved ones,
seated ’round the great white throne.
Marie B. Kerse–genealogybank.com, Richmond Times Dispatch
“Loving remembrance of my devoted Grandmother”! Those words say a lot about Catherine Botto Raffo! How interesting. I’ve been thinking of her children. James Lewis was born in 1857, his sister Mary Catherine in 1858, they were only 9 and 8 years old when their mother remarried. Had they known their Dad at all? Then their stepfather dies when they are 15 and 16! After her marriage in 1866 to her second husband Nicholas Raffo, her son John Francis Raffo is born in 1867. His father dies in 1873–at six, he probably only had hazy memories of his father. Those are rough events in young lives. The Civil War was waged during their childhoods, Richmond was the capital of the Confederacy! What must they have seen and heard!
Yet, we know that John Francis Raffo grew up to become a firefighter, then chief of the Richmond City Fire Department, spanning a fifty year career with them! One of John Francis’ great, great-grandchildren sent this picture to me, which I treasure. Yes, his descendants are alive and well and going strong. I am regularly in touch with one of them on facebook, and another I have met in person. (more of that at a later time) Among them are soldiers, a priest, and many other s including genealogists. This is a line of descendants any mother would be so proud to call her own!

left to right in this photo of the Raffo family taken on their front porch in the Churchill area of Richmond, Virginia: 1. John Francis Raffo, Jr. (Jack) 2. Nicholas Coleman Raffo 3. Frank McLaughlin Raffo 4. John Francis Raffo 5. Mary Margaret Finnegan Raffo (Minnie) 6. Anita Raffo 7. Catherine Raffo Beaty 8. James Coleman Raffo 9. Anna Raffo Eagle 10. Mary Margaret Raffo (Minnie) abt. 1918 Churchill, Richmond, Virginia, USA, given to this author by Coleman Raffo, 2014
Catherine’s daughter Mary Catherine Botto married James Kerse and became the mother of my grandfather Thomas Philip Kerse. She had four children in fact, but two of them died young, Andrew Leo in infancy and Kate, the twin of Marie, died at age 17 of a burst appendix. In fact, because Kate died of a burst appendix, when her brother Thomas Philip came down with appendicitis in his early twenties, the family hired a private duty nurse to take care of him. That nurse turned out to be Katherine Steptoe Kerse, who married Thomas Philip and became my cherished grandmother! They went on to have seven children, twelve grandchildren, 18 great-grandchildren, and so far, 4 great- great- grandchildren! We have several college professors, lawyers, building contractors, teachers, and firefighters! Catherine can be proud of this line of her daughter’s.
Now James Lewis Botto was very different from his sister and half-brother it seems. He was a local politician, and owned a night club in downtown Richmond called St. Helena’s. He was married with six children, four sons and two daughters. Both daughters married men of excellent standing from great families in Richmond. The father and two of his sons went to jail. The father, James Lewis, for only 3 months for bringing illegal liquor into the state to sell at his club during prohibition! A rum runner in the family! The other son, William Joseph Botto, a policeman forced to resign, went to jail only 30 days on this same charge, but then he was charged with domestic violence in 1914, assaulting his wife! He left his wife and disappeared. She had him declared dead after several years! In 1930, he disclosed who he truly was, just before he actually died in a hospital in New York! It is hard for me to believe this happened in my own family! Another son, John Francis Botto went to the penitentiary for 15 years for attacking a 13-year-old girl! Good gracious–what happened in this line of family?! As bad as this seems, we must remember that four of the six children in this family turned out to be excellent citizens, it is not right to judge them poorly on the merits of their father and two brothers! However, it is curious, just how is it that some siblings make such bad choices with their Dad, and most make great choices. The heirs of this family were all female, so the Botto name from James Lewis’s line died out, there are descendants, just not with the Botto name. Since he was the only male heir of Luigi Botto, his line of Bottos did not continue.
I knew we had Italian ancestors, my mother talked about it a lot. But I did not know they were alive and that I could have gotten to know them while growing up! What a shame to miss knowing family until you are in your sixties! I have a clue as to why this might have happened . Catherine Botto Raffo died in 1903, having outlived both husbands by many years. We were told that Catherine was an excellent money manager, and indeed, when she died several things were published in the Richmond Times Dispatch giving us a glimpse into her business acumen. As a successful business woman, she had amassed a fair amount of property. I don’t know how she left it, or if she even had a will, but according to the paper, in 1907, John Francis Raffo sued his half-brother James Lewis Botto et al (did that include my great-grandmother Mary Catherine Botto Kerse? Probably.) I don’t think that is all that unusual however, heirs who inherit equally–one or more want to keep the property, others want their money for their share perhaps. Whatever the situation, John Francis Raffo sued and the court ordered that the lots in downtown Richmond be sold, and the money divided. I imagine that caused great division within the family. Perhaps the Raffos and Bottos no longer spoke, how sad. What would Catherine think? Would she focus on the positive, the many descendants who’ve done well, been responsible and active citizens. Or would she just be devastated about her one son’s family and the two of his sons who got in so much trouble! What an interesting family, wish I knew more, perhaps I will learn more one day. Finding interesting stories like these, and meeting living cousins, discovering lines of relatives you didn’t even know existed, that’s what makes genealogical research so exciting!
Che cosa hai intenzione di fare sulla famiglia ? Loro amore ! What are you going to do about family? Love them! --Helen Y. Holshouser