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Lelia Cockram: Age 16, Murdered While Picking Apples! Another story re. my intriguing ancestors!

Leila Cockram, murdered, Sept. 7, 1914

Lelia Cockram, 1897-1914

         It was a crisp fall day in the mountains of Virginia almost 100 years ago, when my cousin Lelia Cockram, age 16, and her little sister, Kittie, age 13, went to pick apples up on the mountain. Kittie was up in the tree throwing apples down to Lelia when she saw a man approach them. She recognized Oliver Reynolds, a man working in the area who began making comments to Lelia about coming with him and being his girl. Some say she had shunned his advances before. According to a newspaper article printed in the Daily News Record of Harrisonburg, Virginia on Monday, September, 1914, Kittie testified that she heard her sister ask Oliver Reynolds as he approached if he had come to help them pick apples, and he answered in the affirmative.  The next thing Kittie says she heard, was her sister saying “Ow, stop!” Kittie thought maybe she had hit her sister with an apple and peered through the branches to see Mr. Reynolds hitting her sister on the back as she bent over. Then Kittie said she saw him draw a knife and begin cutting her sister! He stabbed Lelia in the neck! Finally he ran away!

     Kittie came down and tried to staunch the flow of blood from her sister’s neck. Her screaming attracted attention and men came to help carry Lelia to the house. Kittie testified that Lelia actually talked to them until she died!  Lelia’s promising young life was ended on the mountain that day September 7, 1914.

      That area in Patrick County, Virginia was a close-knit community, many of them kinsfolk. Oliver Reynolds was easily apprehended, the problem was to protect him from the lynch mob that wanted to hang him. Leila’s father John “went a little crazy” for a while after her murder, what parent wouldn’t have? And what of her mother and fourteen siblings, especially Kittie? Kittie grew up to marry a state congressman, Charles Langhorne “Tump” Spangler and have seven children, but always remained sad and had nightmares regarding her sister’s murder! Today we would say she suffered from PTSD after such a terrible crime!  

    In September 1914, in another county for safety of the prisoner, Oliver Reynolds was sentenced to life in prison, Kittie had to testify. On the 1920 census, he can clearly be seen as an inmate in prison in Goochland County, Virginia. One report claims he died of tuberculosis while imprisoned sometime after 1930. However, I have not been able to locate him in a Virginia prison on the 1930 census, so I suspect he died before 1930. How sad; his was a wasted life.

    At 16, Lelia was already a teacher in rural Virginia. She was well-educated as many young girls were not. For the sake of my cousins and siblings, I am including a relationship chart for our kinship to Leila and Kitty Cockram. Thanks to many of my cousins, especially Harvie Spangler, Kittie’s son; Beverly Belcher Woody,  Patty Lawson Kiser, and Betty Lawson Lawless for giving me information for this story.

 Leila Cockram is murdered!

Lelia Evelyn Cockram
(1897 – 1914)

is your 4th cousin 2x removed

Louisa Elizabeth ‘Lutie’ Helms (1864 – 1944)

mother of Kittie & Leila Cockram


Louvenia Joyce Knowles (1836 – 1900)

mother of Louisa Elizabeth ‘Lutie’ Helms


Jane Harbour (1798 – 1882)

mother of Louvenia Joyce Knowles


David Harbour (1758 – 1846)

father of Jane Harbour


Abner Harbour (1730 – 1778)

father of David Harbour


 Moses Harbour (1755 – 1835)

son of Abner Harbour


Joyce Harbour (1805 – 1888)

daughter of Moses* Harbour


Nancy J Houchins (1833 – )

daughter of Joyce Harbour


Walter Thomas Houchins (1854 – 1937)

son of Nancy J Houchins


Katherine Steptoe Houchins (1883 – 1943)

daughter of Walter Thomas Houchins


Margaret Steptoe Kerse (1918 – 1980)

daughter of Katherine Steptoe Houchins


Helen Spear Youngblood

You are the daughter of Margaret Steptoe Kerse